How you do it, would be up to you. Whatever works for you. ^^
1) Tanggalin ang lahat ng #landi sa katawan.
Kung hindi mo sila pinagnanasahan ng sagad, hindi sila maasiwa sa iyo pag nagfafangirl ka.
Treat them like brothers and not as oppas. ^^
2) Always bring extra food and drinks kapag me event.
(I actually do this kasi BikBaeng and YG family stans always eat when we hang out together. Blackjack Blacksheeps dongsaengs and I usually also bring food to events to share with each other. Mas tipid kasi and #poorfans kami dati so hindi uso ang eat out, now na lang na me mga work na sila)
3) Make sure to have a "care package" for all the members of the CG and not just your "bias".
Most nice and non-user friendly CG members and groups are really appreciative of this. Kasi minsan (lalo na ung mga nagsisimula pa lang) they only go to events with enough money for transpo and for registration etc. They don't get paid and may or may not win anything. So they like it when they are shown appreciation not just in "NOTICE ME OPPA" selca mode but also food.
Remember, the best way to an oppa's kokoro is through his stomach.
BUT TAKE NOTE: Do not expect them to be too appreciative of you. Ika nga wag kayong umasa. Just do it because you want to thank them for their hard work and for helping you have a nice time at the event. Wala silang obligasyon na pansinin ka. Tao lang sila napapagod at minsan busy din magfanboy sa ibang girl group cover group.
Lahat kayo mga fans lang. So as much as they should not be pa-feymous and user-friendly, the same way dapat di kayo SASAENG MODE.
4) LOOK BUT DON'T TOUCH.
Pictures are okay. Hugs are okay IF YOU ARE CLOSE TO THE MEMBER OR PERSON. ALWAYS ASK PERMISSION FIRST. WAG SUNGGAB NG SUNGGAB.
NO KISSING THE CG MEMBERS ON ANY PART OF THE BODY. UNLESS GF KA BAWAL NA BAWAL ITO. Tatandaan ka ng member na yun at lalayuan ka na. Kasi malandi kang walang boundaries.
5) Make sure to be magalang lalo na if older ang cosplayer or cg member. ACT LIKE A LADY pero dapat ka ring maparaan.
*Don't push other fans kasi baka ung matulak mo e noona pala or gf ng cosplayer or cover group members. Mahirap silang kalabanin di ka na makakalapit pa sa cg na un if ever. Believe me I am a #noonasquad. We have a list of sasaengs and we distribute it to other fans like a APB - wanted poster - and those girls are MONITORED during events. If they come near the CG members, the noona or dongsaeng guards start to CROWD around the member or pull them away to go somewhere else. ^^
6) Be a pre-debut fan.
If you know a group that is still starting out, you can be a supporter while they are still not popular. That way, there would be less competition when it come to their attention. ^^
7) Be a good dongsaeng or noona.
You don't have to be a fan. Be a friend.
Be there for them not just as a tagapalakpak but as someone they can talk to without patronizing them too much. Minsan kailangan din nila ng realtalk. ^^
8) CHILL LANG.
Okay lang maging feeling close sa simula.
Ganyan naman talaga. Confidence lang ang kailangan so that you can approach them.
But remember that : Stalking is never cute. Sasaeng mode is ALWAYS scary.
If they can't add you or reply to you, there is a reason.
Most of the time tinatamad lang talaga sila.
9) WE ARE ALL JUST FANS HERE, keep that in mind.
Cover group people / cosplayers are just fanboys and fangirls who do cover.
Keep in mind that this is the way that they spazz.
Before cover groups were just a bunch of fans who spazz together by copying their idols. These days that have changed a lot. Some groups don't last for very long because of members not getting along. Be careful of groups like this.
A cover group must be friends first and foremost.
If they are a bunch of people looking to become popular and get girls/fanboys then they are not a good cover group to stan.
10) At the end of the day, Cover groups like idol group don't last forever. Make sure not to do or say anything you can't take back.
How you as a fangirl or fanboy treat them would influence how you can keep friends in the kpopworld. Some of these people can be great friends in the future. Or they would be memories of your youthful embarrassing days.
You never know, they might end up working in the same place where you work. So be good to them and be good to yourself so as to avoid any awkward moments. ^^
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